Who you calling a B****?


This morning my husband informed me while he read comments from the subscribers on black planet regarding Jay-z's and Kanye West's new album.  Apparently, in one of the songs, Jay-Z begins in the opening verses by speaking very highly of his wife Beyonce'.  Towards the end however he refers to her as "a dog" and suggests to someone who is looking to hard at her breasts to go out and get their own "b****."  


Poor choice of words, poor use of judgment, a lack of respect and if ever a man feels he is so comfortable to the point where he can refer to you as a "female dog," then he needs a refreshers course on how to speak and treat a lady (if in fact he has been given a course that instructs him that that language is unacceptable).


B**** is not a term of endearment.  It is no different than a man being referred to as a n**** in my opinion.  Not to mention females referring to one another as a way to "show each other love."


This language is abusive and it is destructive.  It is deplorable and childish.  We truly have to put away childish things.  The Bible reads, "When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child."  Paul then continues on to say, "When I became a man, I put childish ways behind me," 1 Corinthians 13:11.


It's time that our young women "come out from among them".  Bitch is designated for anyone that is deemed disregarded and disqualified.  It is used towards those that the one who is handling the word to make the other feel beneath them, worthless, or deserving less than.  Well who made anyone a judge over you other than the heavenly Father?  Never allow anyone to call you anything outside your name especially when your heavenly Father does not address you as such.


You are loved, you are never rejected, you are accepted in the beloved; therefore, walk worthy because God has deemed you to be so!  You are not what the "world" says you are.  Never lose sight of who you are in Christ because he never loses sight of you!


Walk Worthy Ladies because you are worth something to God!